It takes a lot to understand everything about human behavior and i believe one of the main reasons believers fail is because of their lack of concern for non-believers. Why should we watch someone who is struggling out there and pass them straight when all they may want is someone to talk to?
Who are we to say we have reached our limit. If Christ used to think like that we would never have gotten this far. We would be dead by now,sadly. I don't think we lack compassion; i think we lack knowledge. If people from my church see the kind of company i hand with at times they would say that i have strayed from God and that i should leave those people. But they may need me even if it's just an ear to listen. I would say i hold a high level of respect among these kinds of people. Reason being, i fit in, not to conform but rather to try to rationalize the way non-believers think.
How can you build yourself as a Christian?
Keep an open mind. Don't compromise but don't judge.
Practice patience with non-believers. They may question a lot of things of the bible and God and even doubt the scriptures but we as believers cannot argue with them. We have to let it go and let things fall in place.
This is what makes me different from other believers. I like to talk to all kinds of people. ...
