Why Wait?

There comes a point in time where you find the person who you can see your future in. Its like you've been hit by a ten tonne truck in the middle of nowhere and you can't turn back. Sometimes that feeling can be lust, a desire to obtain something for the wrong reasons. In that case, forget about it... because a relationship based on lust and no love is a dead end. 

However, if your relationship is real and coincidental and you feel like you can wake up next to that person every single morning, then proceed. Don't let the negativity of parents or peers hold you down. They are not the one in your shoes and they cannot feel what you feel. Love is sometimes strange. Even if you don't want to fall for a person, you will end up doing so and hard. 

Taking a big step is always risky but if you decide to take that step with your true love, then there should be no regrets at all. If you aren't accepted by others, don't let that discourage you because only you and God Almighty can see your future happiness when you look that person in their eyes. The name calling and stereotyping may begin, but that is where you put your feet down. You can't let people force you into doing something you don't want to do or being someone you don't want to be. 

The next step is to gather yourself and find a new place. Even if it means moving out of your parents house, don't be afraid to take the step. Remember how Romeo and Juliet were kept apart, then they committed suicide in the end? You don't want to end up like that. Many teenagers end their life because of relationship struggles and parents still walk around with this mentality. Nothing says 'Goodbye horrible past' than a fresh start. 

I know how expensive a house can be so why rush it? If you already have a boyfriend/girlfriend that loves you so much then everything else will fall into place. I am not saying that courting is a great thing to do, but in difficult situations it helps. 

Last but not least, don't head back into that bad direction. People may ask you why you decided to start a new life and always ask dumb questions. Truth is, if you reached so far then you're going great and don't need to answer to anyone but God. True love only comes once or twice so we should grab onto the love mobile and stay on as long as we can. Forbidden true love sucks...but you don't have to accept the rejection. Why wait? Make a change and take control of YOUR life. (This does not apply if you are a minor)